Okay, so you’re sitting at this baby shower. Cupcake in one hand, pen in the other. And someone’s handing you this little card or notebook, telling you to “What To Write To An Unborn Baby For A Baby Shower.”
The baby.
Who hasn’t even taken their first breath yet. Who doesn’t know what sunlight is. Or gravity. Or taxes. (Lucky.)
And you’re supposed to just… what? Write a heartfelt note to a person the size of a pineapple?
Yeah. It feels weird.
You know, it is also a little bit pretty. It is a letter to a person who has yet to meet you. That person is expected to come and be the one creating impacts, and it is very possible that they will one day be the ones who read what you wrote long before they came into the world. So, it is not necessary to make it so great. You are not writing a wedding speech. Just some real. Or humorous. Or kind. Whatever sounds like you.
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Things You Can Write If You Wanna Be Sentimental
If you’re feeling that soft side, this section’s for you. These aren’t overly polished. Just honest thoughts you’d want a tiny person to read someday.
- “You’re not even here yet, and you’re already so deeply loved. Like, a lot.”
- “Hope this world is kind to you. But more importantly, I hope you’re kind back.”
- “You’ve already made your parents better people. And you haven’t even pooped yet.”
- “I don’t know who you’ll become, but I know the world is luckier with you in it.”
- “The day you arrive, everything changes—and honestly? That’s the best kind of magic.”
Stuff That’s More Light-Hearted or Silly
Not everyone’s here to write a poem. If your style’s more sarcastic aunt than Pinterest mom, welcome.
- “You’ll soon discover that naps are life. Use them wisely.”
- “Your parents are awesome. Slightly unhinged. But awesome.”
- “Here’s to snacks, cartoons, and getting away with everything because you’re cute.”
- “May your diaper changes be fast, and your tantrums… minimal.”
- “One day, you’ll cringe at this message. But I meant every word. Even the weird ones.”
If You’re a Close Family Member
Look, if you’re writing this as a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or cousin—lean into that. These words carry extra weight.
- “I’ve been waiting to meet you before you were even a thought. And now you’re almost here.”
- “You’re already part of this wild, messy, lovable family. We’ve saved a seat for you.”
- “Your parents? They’re good people. You’re in solid hands.”
- “Spoiling you will be my full-time hobby. Hope you like cookies and chaos.”
- “Can’t wait to see how your little personality wrecks us all in the best way.”
If You’re Not That Close or Honestly Don’t Know What To Write
Totally fair. Maybe you’re a friend of the parents. Maybe you just showed up for the cake (same). These short messages still work.
- “Sending love as you begin this crazy adventure called life.”
- “Hope your world is full of hugs, giggles, and comfy socks.”
- “You’re arriving into a home full of love. That’s all that matters.”
- “You don’t know it yet, but you’ve already made people better just by existing.”
- “Being a baby is tough, but you’ve got this.”
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If You Want Something Random or Quirky
You don’t have to be deep. Some people remember the notes that made them laugh.
- “Dear baby: milk now, taxes later. Good luck.”
- “You’re a fresh start. A clean slate. A bald, wrinkly hope machine.”
- “Hope you like loud families and weird uncles. We’ve got both.”
- “You’re about to enter a world with pizza, memes, and warm blankets. Not bad.”
- “Don’t worry, the dog will protect you. Or at least steal your toys.”
When There’s Only Room for One Line
Let’s be real, sometimes you get two inches of space on a card. Keep it tight.
- “You’re already someone worth waiting for.”
- “Excited for your arrival, tiny human.”
- “The world just got better with you in it.”
- “Life begins, and it’s beautiful.”
- “Welcome to the chaos.”
If You Wanna Write a Whole Letter (Because You’re That Person)
Totally understandable. A few of us have much to talk about. If you are one of them, and you want to communicate in a cool way, here is that kind of a vibe:
“I am an unknown person to you today, but I do exist; even better that you have brought about people’s happiness. Somewhere out there, in the future, you will be all grown-up, and you will come across this letter, then you will ask yourself my identity, and in fact who would I be? Well, most likely, I would just be a person who was optimistic about your safety, curious to see you search, still being with, and cared for by others. I do not say that life is a fairy tale; nevertheless, I do wish that in the future, you will just laugh out loud, feel elated with a first snowfall, seek comfort in a bed at night, and should like to fill your belly with midnight snacks. However, I want to assure you that you are loved, you are loved without a doubt. Remember never to let go of this fact.”
Want to Add a Quote? Here Are a Few That Aren’t Overused
If you want to throw in a quote but hate clichés, these are low-key gems:
- “Children see magic because they look for it.” – Christopher Moore
- “You are what happened when we wished upon a star.” – Unknown
- “Every child begins the world again.” – Henry David Thoreau
- “Some things arrive in your life so quietly, you don’t even realize how big they are until later.” – Unknown
- “A baby is something you carry inside you for nine months, in your arms for three years, and in your heart until you die.” – Mary Mason
Tiny Checklist: What Can You Say in Your Baby Shower Message?
Here’s a quick hit-list in case you’re still blanking. Use any combo of these:
- A hope or wish (sleep, joy, love, snacks)
- Something personal about the baby’s family
- One piece of advice—even if it’s funny
- A line about how excited everyone is
- Literally just say “you’re loved” and sign your name
Quick Reminder (Because This Comes Up)
Even though this post is about what to write to an unborn baby for a baby shower, it’s not a formula. You don’t need to overthink it. Just write like yourself. Say something real. Or simple. Or kind.
They’ll read it someday. Or their parents will. And they’ll smile. Maybe tear up a little. That’s enough.
FAQs
- Can I keep it super short? Like, one line?
Yep. No one’s judging. One honest line beats a fake paragraph. - Is it weird to joke in the card?
Nah, as long as it’s light and not passive-aggressive. Humor is totally fair game. - What if I don’t know the baby’s name yet?
Just say “baby” or “tiny human.” You’ll still be golden. - Should I mention the parents?
You can, but keep the note aimed at the baby. It’s their card. - I’m not a writer. Can I copy something?
Absolutely. That’s why posts like this exist. Borrow away.
Kamran Shahzad is a seasoned writer with a passion for meaningful moments. At Veltsio, he shares heartfelt wishes, thoughtful gift ideas, and creative ways to make every occasion extra special.